My grandparents asked me if I actually had any straight friends and we all just laughed as I honestly said “I dunno man.” They’re pretty cool. It led into explaining about gender fluidity and sexual spectrum and how no ones really 100% one or the other, and these 70+ dudes GOT THAT. They’re not perfect, but they always try to understand and it gives me hope.
being engaged almost sounds like you joined a sorority you didnt want to(didnt want all this emails/’omfg im gonna get married too!! lets go grab a cosmo’ bs not the getting married part lol)
It’s really amazing how accurate that is. Like, I just want to spend my life with my fiancé, that’s all. I didn’t ask to go to spa. Which I’m doing btw cause I’m in bro’s weddings’ bridal party and APPARENTLY that’s the kind of thing you do when you’re getting married. It’s so confusing to me, it’s like a whole other weird world that costs a lot of money for no foreseeable reason. It’s FASCINATING. Whatever, I could probably use a day to actually relax though. Still. idgi.